Do you ever feel like there’s an invisible force holding you back from the having the business success you desire? The chances are you have a vision for a thriving, purpose-driven business, making good money. But do you sometimes find something keeps stopping you from taking the next step?
That “something” is often fear. And whether it’s fear of failure or fear of success, it can quietly sabotage your progress, leaving you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and frustrated.
Let’s explore how these fears show up—and what you can do to break free.
The Fear of Failure: What If I’m Not Enough?
The fear of failure can be deeply rooted in past experiences. Messages from parents, teachers, or old relationships may still whisper, “You’re not good enough.”
This fear can show up in different ways. Classic symptoms are:
- Procrastination: Delaying important tasks like launching your programme or reaching out to potential clients. (and if you are like me, finding bizarre tasks like hoovering the lamp shades to convince you you’re doing something worthwhile!)
- Perfectionism: Redoing something over and over again, believing it’s never “good enough” to share.
- Avoidance: Shying away from opportunities that could take your business to the next level because they feel too risky.
The truth is, there is no such thing as failure. This thing we call ‘”failure” isn’t the end—it’s part of the journey. Every “failure” is a stepping stone, showing you what works and what doesn’t. AS the old saying goes, there’s no failure, only feedback.
Reframe the Fear: Instead of seeing failure as proof you’re not capable, see it as evidence you’re learning, growing, and moving forward.
The Fear of Success: What If I Can’t Handle It?
Fear of success can be even trickier to spot. After all, who wouldn’t want success? But for many spiritually minded women, success can feel overwhelming.
You might worry about:
- Responsibility: “What if I can’t handle the pressure of success?”
- Judgement/abuse: “Will other people (particularly family and friends) judge me or even call me out in an abusive way for wanting financial abundance?”
- Work-Life Balance: “If my business grows, will I have to sacrifice my family or me- time?”
These fears can lead to self-sabotage, like downplaying your achievements or holding back from talking about your success and what you can do at all.
Shift Your Perspective: Success doesn’t have to mean stress or imbalance. It’s about designing a business that aligns with your values and supports the life you want to live.
Breaking Free from Fear
Fear, whether of failure or success, is often a symptom of unprocessed emotions or limiting beliefs. Here’s how you can start untangling them:
- Acknowledge the Fear: Get honest about what’s holding you back. Journaling can be a powerful way to uncover hidden fears. And watch out for those times when you generalise – words like ‘everyone, always, never’ are great clues.
- Challenge the Belief: Ask yourself, “Is this fear true? What’s the evidence? What’s the evidence for the opposite?
- Reconnect to Your Why: Focus on your purpose. Why did you start this business? Who are you here to serve? Why are you here on the planet?
- Seek Support: You don’t have to face these fears alone. Join a community of like-minded women or work with a coach who understands your journey.
You Are Capable of More Than You Know
The dreams you have for your business aren’t there by accident. They’re a reflection of your potential. And while fear may try to protect you from the unknown, it’s not a reason to stay small.
You are worthy of success—on your terms. And with the right mindset and support, you can overcome the fears that are holding you back and step confidently into the life and business you deserve.
Ready to Break Free?
If this resonates with you and you’re ready to explore how to overcome the fears sabotaging your success, let’s have a conversation. Together, we can turn those invisible barriers into stepping stones towards the thriving, purpose-driven business you’ve always dreamed of. Book a call https://drjanelewis.com/diary